Happy Face For Happy Kids

Little book….

kids.jpgI really enjoyed reading that book with my daughter because it seemed to portray all emotions as having their place, rather than enforcing the idea that everybody has to have a happy face all of the time. In real life, sometimes mommy is happy and then you will see her happy face. And yet at other times, perhaps mommy is somewhat sad. This little book had a lighthearted way of showing a whole range of emotions and teaching children the importance of looking at a person’s face to figure out how they are feeling. I think that books like this, while seemingly simple, can have very definite impacts on a child’s social awareness and help them to realize that life doesn’t been being surrounded by a happy face at every turn.

“If you’re happy like this king, you will smile at every thing”

When my daughter was quite small we used to read a book called Copycat Faces. In that book we would see all these cute little children making a whole range of faces. Her favorite page was the happy face page where it said: If you’re happy like this king, you will smile at every thing! My little daughter was grin and laugh with glee whenever we came to this page. (I hope that the fact that the king was the guy with the happy face didn’t instill in my child a belief that riches equate with happiness… but that’s another topic!)

 

 

 

Where is it?

Sometimes when I’m deep in thought, I’ll tend to to stare off into the distance. In this pensive state I tend to forget how my face might look, and perhaps my daughter sees somewhat of a scowl. I know this because she’s ask me where my happy face has gone, and I’ll be somewhat startled, surprised that my face had assumed a darker scowl. I’ll quickly put on a happy face once again and assure her that I was only thinking. She’ll look at me doubtfully and then continue playing.

 

Lot of happy faces…

 

Whenever my daughter draws a picture of a person she always makes sure they have a happy face. That seems to be a good indication of her state of mind and also seems to indicate that she sees a lot of happy faces around her. She is only four, but I don’t think I’m reading too much into her preference. I have seen her draw a scary monster face and even a sad face on occasion. However, her preference truly seems to be for a happy face.

Pick A Perfect Birthday Present For Mom!

Mom probably still has the Christmas tree ornament that you made in fourth grade….

One of the best birthday presents for Mom is something that you made yourself.  Sure, it sounds a little smarmy, it sounds a little like you’re still in fourth grade and you’re making ornaments for the family tree, but think about this: Mom probably still has the Christmas tree ornament that you made in fourth grade.  It’s probably buried in a box somewhere and she always thinks of you whenever she puts it up on the tree, which happens every year.  Though the wool sweater you found for her last year was probably more expensive and in better taste, there’s a good chance it didn’t mean as much to her as the ornament did, unless maybe you knitted the sweater.

Mom likes cute things…

Choosing a birthday present for Mom really isn’t all that difficult.  Honestly, it isn’t, even for the mom who has everything.  In fact, if anything, choosing a birthday present for Mom is even easier than choosing presents for anyone else in the family.  Why?  What makes her so special?  Mom is easy to shop for because Mom likes cute things, and if you look in the right places cute things are very easy to find.

Treasured memories…

Try to find something to do with the desert, either a cactus or a woven blanket or a sombrero, whatever the gift include with it a photo from your trip.  Eventually one of you will say “do you remember the time that we…” and it’ll be off on a trip to memory lane.  After that, every time she uses your present or sees it on the shelf she’ll think of that trip and all of the good memories.  What better gift than treasured memories? Finally, Moms like to be pampered, and you can never go wrong with a spa treatment or a towel warmer.

Maybe you can frame a photo..

So think, what can you make for Mom that nobody else can?  Maybe you can knit her a sweater.  Or make her another ornament.  Maybe you can frame a photo of the two of you together, or throw her a pot out of clay.  Whatever it is, there’s a good chance she’ll appreciate it, regardless of how much it cost you or how much time it took to make.  Even handmade cards can get an easy “awwwww.” Another good way to get a birthday present for Mom that she’ll remember is to find something that is reminiscent of some time you spent together.  Did you have a family road trip to Arizona?

Your Maternity Wear Collection

The classic look of the trench coat will never go out of style….

Fall calls for the perfect coat. Don’t stuff yourself into your regular old seasonal coats when you can get a great deal on a stylish maternity trench coat that is suitable for cold, wind and rain. Stay stylish and comfortable while wearing this must have for the savvy mother-to-be. The classic look of the trench coat will never go out of style. You can either save this maternity wear for your next pregnancy or you can opt to sell this timeless piece at a consignment store or on EBay. The trench coat is a great choice because it retains its value and it makes for a great investment.

There are must-haves in every woman’s wardrobe…

Maternity wear has never been more stylish and there has never been a bigger selection of pregnancy clothing than ever before. Instead of wearing your husband’s oversized shirts, why not invest in a few choice items that are suitable for the home and the office as well. There are must-haves in every woman’s wardrobe and this simple fact doesn’t change during pregnancy. In fact, the must-have clothing is even more important when your wardrobe is limited. Focus on getting some choice pieces of maternity wear that will help you feel comfortable and beautiful all at once.

You can create a whole new look…

Of course, you want to have something very feminine in your maternity wear collection. Nothing is better suited for the office than a classic pencil skirt. This look is comfortable and flattening and you can find the pencil skirt design in just about any material imaginable, including wool.Some shoppers like to buy several maternity tops to keep their collections fresh. You can create a whole new look by adding colorful shirts and blouses to your maternity wardrobe. There are countless tops designed for comfort and attractiveness. Women have more options than ever before. Instead of settling for second hand pregnancy clothing and your husband’s shirts, try adding a few key pieces into your maternity wear collection. You will look and feel fantastic.

The warm tone of the deep chocolate…

Another must for fall is maternity wear that boasts comfort and style in a pant. Choosing a great chocolate tweed pair of pants with a lot of stretch is ideal for home and office. There are wonderful designs in this hot color ranging from flair legs to boot cut designs that are sure to please. The warm tone of the deep chocolate maternity slacks is ideal for fall and it works well into the winter months as well. Look for super soft fabrics like well-constructed twill that has a little movement. These pants will be among the most valuable maternity wear that you add to your wardrobe.

Ideas For Unique Mothers Day Gift

Here are some good ideas for Mothers Day:

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It takes a little more time and thought…

Mothers Day is coming and we all like to honor our Mother in a special way. Too often, we wait until the last minute, thinking we can certainly find something special if only we go out shopping in early May. Mom always loves a bouquet of her favorite flowers, but those should be purchased just the day before! However, if you’re looking for unique Mothers Day gift ideas, it takes a little more time and thought. So now’s the time to put on your thinking cap and be sure you have sufficient time to make your arrangements. Here are a few ideas to get those creative juices flowing.

Get it for her…

Sometimes, the element of surprise forms the basis of unique Mothers Day gift ideas. One she’d never expect. Does she love the theatre or ballet? Get tickets for her favorite theatre group or show. Perhaps her idea of a day in heaven is a day at a spa, being pampered mercilessly, but which she’d never buy for herself. Get it for her !So here you have a start. Show Mom how much you love her with one of these ideas, or with one of your own unique Mothers Day gift ideas.

Might be a bit pricey…

Such unique Mothers Day gift ideas often requires some preparation. You’ve heard of newspaper clippings that can be compiled relating what happened on the day you were born. How about one for your Mom? You’ll be amazed how extraordinary was the day that your Mom was born. Buy a nice photo album and have it embossed by a printer with a title, such as ‘The Extraordinary Day my Mom was Born’. This idea qualifies as a unique Mothers Day gift idea, but might be a bit pricey. Here, all her kids may need to chip in, but she will treasure it. Have a jeweler make a custom bracelet or necklace which contains her birthstone as well as that of each child. If you’re an only child, have a ring made with both your birthstones side by side, surrounded by diamonds

How To Pick The Best Presents For Kids?

Many parents are often too busy to be there for their kids!

As an educator I have seen many changes in the children that come through my classroom. I have been in the classroom for twenty seven years. When I started the rules were simple, discipline was feared, kids were curious and manners were good. Today rules and regulations are repeated like a litany, discipline is questioned by the student and their parent and kids are more into MTV and cell phones and ipods to concentrate on their studies. Many parents still care about their children and their education, but they are often too busy to be there for there child. Each year I have a number of parents that will ask me for ideas for presents for kids

There are so many wonderful inventions…

With each passing day technology and electronics are become more advanced. The newest item that is purchased will be out dated in six months to a year. New technology bought today may go down in price as much as fifty percent in weeks. There are so many wonderful inventions that come out of the minds of people. We must remember this as we raise our children. It is out of their ability to imagine that future inventions and medical devices and cures will come. We need to keep them interested and encourage them to use their imaginations.

Presents for kids that will have them thinking…

I love going to the discovery store or any toy store that have presents for kids that will have them thinking and doing and learning in a way that they are having fun at the same time. Especially students that may have had a difficult experience in the classroom, if they can find something that is interesting to them and that they can achieve at it may spur their overall interest in learning. There are science kits that can be purchased, but my preference is to tell parents to buy books of homemade experiments. There are several on the market that help kids create all sorts of fun things using regular household ingredients.

Board games are a great way for families to spend time..

In a way this is flattering that they would value my opinion and realize that there are presents for kids that can help their education. In a way this is also quite sad that I know some of these kids better than their parents do.Usually when I am asked about ideas for presents for children I suggest different board games that the child has to play with others. I think board games are a great way for families to spend time together where there is a joint focus and not a great deal of pressure to talk. For younger students I will suggest any type of present that will stir their imagination.

Make Kids Birthday Cakes, Special And Fun

Inside each cake, a trinket prize is baked right into the cake….

Here are a few creative ideas to make that milestone cake special.One such idea takes its cue from the Mardi Gras celebration cake tradition. Inside each cake, a trinket prize is baked right into the cake. With the Mardi Gras cake, a small King or Queen’s crown is placed into the batter. When the cake is cut, the lucky individual whose piece contains the prize is given some special favor or title. For kids birthday cakes, you can use a small action figure instead. The child who gets the trinket is awarded a prize. This adds suspense and giggles to the serving ritual.

A kids birthday cake is the centerpiece around which the entire occasion is planned..

When you were a kid, do you remember the fun of anticipating being another year older? Unlike many adults, kids entertain lots of fantasies as they’re about to put another year under their belt. Being eight is much better than being seven. Maybe you’ll get that new bike. Being thirteen means you’re now a teen. Then there’s the birthday party - and birthday cake. A kids birthday cake is the centerpiece around which the entire occasion is planned.Of course, the cake must be your kid’s favorite flavors. Beyond the taste, there are lots of fun things you can do with kids birthday cakes to make them memorable and a big hit with all the kids.

Adults may have forgotten how to really have a good time with a cake…

Give each child a tube of colored frosting gel, sprinkles or whatever might enhance that plain Jane cake. Let the birthday child go first, applying his or her take on proper cake design. Each child gets a set amount of time to do their thing. Again, this may end up looking like a cake you never imagined, but the kids will be having fun. You’ll see that adults may have forgotten how to really have a good time with a cake.When the kids have done the deed with the cake, you can present each child with a small favor bag with their name on it as a reward for their decorating efforts. While they’re checking out their prizes, you bring on the ice cream. Ah, to be a child again!

Let them decorate their own piece…

As an alternative to ordering a decorated cake, try baking a cake embellished only with the frosting of the birthday kid’s choice. Set the cake in the center of the table and surround it with little dishes of jam, sprinkles, small chocolate and assorted candies. When the kids sit down, let them decorate their own piece with the goodies they deem to make the perfect gooey concoction. A birthday is an occasion where you can let them go overboard. Although you may look askance at some of the individual creations, the kids will love it.Another fun way to make the most of a kids birthday cake is to start with the plain, frosted cake as the kids sit down.

Teaching Helpful Household Hints

 

There are entire television net works…

Because there are many things that are learned in watching a woman whose main job is household duties, many people need to turn to advice columns and books to pick up helpful household hints that they did not learn from their mothers. There are entire television net works that are dedicated to providing helpful household hints in regards to , cleaning, decorating, and also some helpful hints on teaching cooking. Many of the suggestions seem to be common sense to me, but then I was raised by a full time homemaker.

 

Most couples need to have two incomes…

 

The current generation of young couples having children was most likely raised in a family where both parents worked outside of the home. This has certainly become very common place in our society. Most couples need to have two incomes in order to create the life style that they want to live. Also most women want to have a career or job so that they do not feel dependent on their partner for financial support. This is a great thing for women’s stability, however family life has changed a great deal and people are finding that there are many things that they did not learn to do from watching their mother’s, like the generations before them have.

 

Teaching helpful household hints can be a fun learning experience for children and are useful for them for the future…

 

It would be wonderful if the present generation would take the time to include their children in the process as they learn some of these hints that help make a household run better. Many things such as removing a stain from upholstery or carpet or substituting ingredients in a recipe or repairing a tear in fabric, are activities that can be done with the children watching or participating. I have found with my grandchildren that I will ask them to read me the instructions for a recipe that we are making together. This helps them become more confident in reading out loud and also gives them some helpful lesson and hints on teaching cooking , different cooking terms and techniques ..

 

The book stores are full of publications…

 

I was taught helpful household hints on a daily basis as I helped around the house and yard. Today so many household chores are done on the run and after the children go to bed at night, so there is not a great deal of teaching that goes along with performing the household tasks.Teaching people simple, effective and helpful household tasks has become a multi million dollar business. The book stores are full of publications, networks are filled with programming and the internet has multiple sites that are dedicated to giving people advice to help them around the house.

Importance Of High School Curiculum

They want to go to college….

The high school curriculum can get complicated when a child is not sure what they should do, or if they even want to go to college. This is when a child might want to have a chat with their high school guidance counselor to give them an idea of their options. If there is any chance they want to go to college, they might want to pick a high school curriculum that ensures they have the classes and the credits they will need to get in. Even if they don’t go to college, these classes will be valuable…

You want to be sure your children are taking the right classes…

Each school has a standard by which they must teach their children. However, the high school curriculum from school to school will differ to varying degrees. If you have children in the last years of school, this is something you should pay attention to. You want to be sure your children are taking the right classes, and that they are getting what they need for college, if that is what they want to do after graduation. This is also something that home-schoolers should know.

They may skip important classes…

If your child comes to you and asks you what they should do for their high school curriculum, you can then help them out. However, some students are unsure, and they may not know what to choose, so they randomly pick classes. If your child has not talked to you about what they should be taking, make sure you find out what they are thinking about what they want to choose. They may skip important classes without knowing it, or they may try to take the minimum they can. You want them to do their best, so make sure you know, and encourage them to make chances if they seem to be taking the easy route. They will regret that in the future.

All the information you need…

If you home school your children, it is a good idea to know the high school curriculum that is mandated by your state. You can often do this by talking with your school. They may give you all the information you need, along with all of the other guidelines that you should follow. Many who home school choose to send their children to high school at grade nine because they feel the college prep classes are too much to handle at home, but if not, knowing the proper high school curriculum is essential for the best start in life.

Few Techniques For Effective And Better Communication

How well we communicate our ideas…

We all communicate every day.. How well we communicate our ideas depends on the techniques for effective communication which we employ. Here are few proven techniques for effective communication to improve your communication skills.

You should not arrive at the meeting unprepared…

When conveying a more complex message, use an organized and logical approach. Here’s an example of how to put this technique for effective communication to work for you. Let’s say you’re meeting with your boss to discuss a proposed project. You should not arrive at the meeting unprepared. Take the time to sit down and order your material in a written format. You wouldn’t begin with telling him how one of your objectives should be met. You first want to state the problem which justifies the project. Then you might go into a step-by-step itemization of the objectives, how each will be met and the time required to implement each objective. You might conclude with any open issues. Your boss will surely appreciate the clarity, organization and logic of your presentation.

Strive to increase your vocabulary…

The clarity with which you present your ideas is essential. Whether you’re writing an essay or having a verbal conversation with your neighbor, you must practice clarity. To this end, strive to increase your vocabulary. Let’s say you wish to compliment your neighbor on her new hair style. “That looks good”, is not quite clear. Your neighbor may even be insulted, thinking her old style must have been terrible to evoke your remark. “I love that subtle color. It looks great with your complexion!”, is much better. You’ve made it clear what it is you like and why.

Leave the door open to alternate perspectives…

This leads us to the final point when you study techniques for effective communication. Always keep in mind that communication should result in an exchange of ideas where everyone learns. You, of course, wish to persuade the other party to your point of view. However, you must leave the door open to alternate perspectives. In this way, everyone benefits.Present your information clearly, logically and in an organized format. When appropriate, be concise. Be willing to be open to other ideas. Use these techniques and see your communication skills improve dramatically.

Remember that it’s not all about you….

It’s been said that brevity is the soul of wit. When you’re writing Aunt Mary, you might go on for pages, with all the latest family news. However, when you’ve got a list of questions to ask your physician, you want to be concise and to the point. Enough said! Perhaps the most valuable technique for effective communications is to remember that it’s not all about you. This is one of the most common errors people make when communicating. They get so involved with their own point of view that the other person feels completely left out and stops listening or reading. If you’re chatting with your neighbor and the conversation consists of what you’re doing, thinking and feeling, your communication is one-sided and self-serving.

Great And Affordable Family Vacation Packages

The savings usually weren’t enough…

Of course, before learning about great family vacation packages, I still tried to save money on travel whenever possible. I shopped around for the best deals on airfare and hotels, and I made an effort to book our trips during off-peak seasons. While those strategies did help lower prices a bit, the savings usually weren’t enough to allow me to take the whole gang to fun and interesting destinations. So there were no ski trips during Christmas break and no trips to Disney World over the summer. All we could do was drive two states over to visit the grandparents, which obviously wasn’t much of a treat.

Now we’re able to get away more often than before…

Like a lot of other large families, we occasionally have to struggle to make ends meet. We work on a pretty tight budget to begin with, so there’s not a lot of room to buy extras or to treat ourselves to something nice. For example, vacations used to be out of the question, as plane tickets, accommodation, meals, and museum or park admissions for six people could easily run to several thousand dollars — money which we usually didn’t have. But now that I’ve learned how to find affordable family vacation packages, we’re able to get away more often than before.

Amazing vacations..And Great Affordable Family Destinations

These deals are available for all of the great  and affordable  family-friendly destinations in the United States, including Orlando, San Antonio, Yellowstone, the Grand Canyon, Las Vegas, Myrtle Beach, and even Hawaii. In addition, there are lots of affordable family vacation packages to top international destinations such as Mexico, the Bahamas, Canada, and many major European cities. The prices on most of these family vacation packages are superb, so you really do have to check them out — especially if you’ve always thought that amazing vacations are out of your budget. Take it from me: I just got done booking my family’s first trip to Disney World, so I know it can be done for a reasonable price!

Agencies are becoming increasingly aware of the cash…

But then an acquaintance of mine who works in the travel industry clued me in to all the cheap family vacation packages that are available these days. It seems that agencies are becoming increasingly aware of the cash crunch many families face, so they’ve responded by offering all-inclusive family vacation packages designed to relieve some of the financial burden that vacations usually represent.Now I can find all kinds of discount family vacation packages just by running a few quick searches online.

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